Once again proving its commitment to anti-trans bias, the New York Times today featured a fearful, incoherent opinion piece by gay conservative Andrew Sullivan. In it, Sullivan echoes a spate of other recent NYT pieces blaming trans and LGBTQ+ activists for conservative attacks on the trans community, and takes them a step further still.
For those familiar with Sullivan’s work, none of this is a surprise. The former editor of the New Republic is known for two things: Championing same sex marriage as a conservative answer to calls for gay and lesbian equal rights and promoting discredited race science. However, the piece is useful as a way to talk about two of the most widely held ideas about the trans rights movement and how fundamentally incompatible with each other they are. First, there’s the belief that modern LGBTQ+ activists have sought to destabilize the gender binary. Then, there’s the belief that LGBTQ+ activists are unnecessarily medicalizing kids. The problem? The second idea cannot be true if you believe the first.
For an aging gay man whose brain is soaked in prejudice and fear, it’s very easy to be afraid of nonbinary people existing and kids transitioning at the same time. This fear presents them as new and strange, even though Sullivan must know that nonbinary identities aren’t new – Sullivan’s assimilationist gay politics followed on the heels of more radical activism such as that of Leslie Feinburg, a nonbinary transmasculine lesbian whose defiant Marxist politics have aged incredibly well. It’s perhaps more forgivable to think young people transitioning is new, as most recent accounts erroneously date the phenomenon to the Netherlands in the 1990s. (This is inaccurate as Jules Gill Peterson’s History of the Transgender Child showed, unearthing examples of young people being helped to transition with hormone therapy in the 1960s and 70s in the U. S.)
However, anyone who honestly investigates this topic will find that over-medicalizing gender-nonconforming people has been a concern among the LGBTQ+ movement much longer than it’s been a concern of Sullivan’s, and the push for more acceptance and understanding of nonbinary identities is part of the solution activists propose, along with the request to see trans people as their genders whether they medically transition or not.
One fact that has been habitually highlighted by anti-trans activists is the rise in young people who identify as trans. However, they typically leave out the fact that the big increases have come in young people identifying as nonbinary, or that the number of youth who also transition medically has remained well below the percentage of trans adults.
Andrew Sullivan is right that loosening stereotypes about maleness and femaleness, allowing young people to explore different modes of expression in adolescence, and responding with affirmation to the words they use to label themselves is a major social shift. It’s one that makes people uncomfortable. He grew up in a world where sex was the single organizing principle on which every social situation was built. In that world, people were taught that a near total segregation of the sexes outside of dating and marriage was natural and right and even biologically based. The fact that young people of both sexes are increasingly rejecting the rigidness of this system and looking for alternatives is destabilizing for anyone who bought into this worldview.
This new openness to crossing gender barriers, however, provides an answer to the concerns about overmedicalizing transgender youth. In his essay, Sullivan describes being a young boy of 10 who didn’t like sports being asked if he was “really a girl.” He now fears that if he’d ever been told he could be a girl it might have led him to identify that way.
It’s a fear that’s already decades out of date – today many girls like sports, many boys don’t. In some places the rules around gender have relaxed even further, to the point where a child can be free to explore hobbies, styles of dress, different names and pronouns, all without being told what that should mean. It’s the kind of change that could ensure that no one’s gender exploration would ever be medicalized again, and that only those who consistently feel the need for medical options like hormones or surgery will have any reason to consider them. It’s also the kind of change Andrew Sullivan decries as too destabilizing, too extreme, too against conservative common sense.
By putting gender-affirming care alongside efforts to weaken gender stereotypes, conservatives like Sullivan are seeking a return to having as few gender-nonconforming people as possible, with the medicalization of such people as a way to prop up the larger system of gender norms. It’s a dismal vision for anyone who loves freedom and free expression, one that represses the individual in the name of stability and tradition as conservatism always has.
Evan Urquhart is the founder of Assigned Media.








Sullivan explicitly OPPOSES gender stereotypes, so the allegation that he is "seeking a return to having as few gender-nonconforming people as possible" is patently false (and) indeed, is an outright smear). "In order for a boy to believe he is a girl, he must first be taught that there is a wrong way to be a boy."
Hi, thanks for your comment!
This is exactly the incoherence I’m talking about. He opposes gender stereotypes while also opposing the LGBTQ+ movements opposition of gender stereotypes. You may agree with Sullivan, but you’re talking about the exact flaw in his reasoning I’ve highlighted here.
Good article, would love to see something a bit longer in the future on Andrew Sullivan but I understand that this is a pretty quick turnaround.
Sullivan’s piece was more compelling than this knee-jerk, boiler plate critique. Given the devastating expose in the New York Times Magazine last Sunday and Sarah McBride’s takedown of the scorched earth tactics of the trans activists on the Ezra Klein podcast, the bottom seems to be coming out of the movement. With allies like Chase Strangio, the activists don’t need any enemies.
Readers should read Sullivan’s piece and the two articles and judge for themselves which argument is "incoherent."
https://www.nytimes.com/2025/06/19/magazine/scotus-transgender-care-tennessee-skrmetti.html
https://www.nytimes.com/2025/06/17/opinion/ezra-klein-podcast-sarah-mcbride.html?searchResultPosition=4
Love this piece!
Thought it was a really good article actually. Good job Andrew.
As someone who subscribe to Sully for entirely too long, the real reasoning is much more crass and simple (and indisputably Andrew): he got yelled at by lefty queers at NY Mag before he left, then got divorced during the pandemic and was annoyed at all the trans men on Grindr. He was remarkably candid about this to his subscribers.
Came here right after reading Sullivan! You did a wonderful job <3 Much love from Philly!
I wouldn’t call it incoherent. but rather well thought out. I don’t consider myself conservative, but many of the points he made rang true with me. As a former teacher of adolescents, making a life changing decision such as gender transition, should not be made until the brain is fully functioning. If you know the research, that doesn’t happen until the mid-twenties at the earliest. To say that twelve-year-olds realize and understand the life -long consequences of making the decision to transition, is ludicrous.
Sullivan’s blaming trans people for the desires of his fellow conservatives to end gay marriage and to curtail gay rights overall is remarkably shallow and silly. republicans will always consider gays and certainly gay marriage to be an abomination and against the will of god. So I say he’s a dumbass old fogie. Live and let live. Being a conservative gay man is basically an oxymoron anyway
Andrew Sullivan is, and always has been a rabidly hate driven right wing extremist. Its a shame that most of the commenters here agree with him and his transphobic viewpoint. Its a shame that a group of people that haven’t hurt anyone have to face such naked hatred for simply being who they are, and what’s even worse is that there are so many bigoted, rabidly hate driven anti LGBTQ public school teachers. These poor kids don’t have a chance.